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Tell Me How You're Mighty

Tell Me How You're Mighty

By: Tracy Schorn Sarah Gorrell
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Welcome to Tell Me How You're Mighty — the podcast about surviving infidelity and other hard stuff. Your hosts are Tracy Schorn (aka "Chump Lady") and Sarah Gorrell — a radio presenter with the BBC. A pairing that's akin to inviting a junkyard dog to your tea party. Sarah brings the dulcet tones. Tracy brings the snark. We talk about infidelity, relationships, parenting, and, of course, mightiness.2024 Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • 124. Did You Compare Yourself to the Affair Partner? Part 1

    124. Did You Compare Yourself to the Affair Partner? Part 1
    Apr 14 2026

    Caught up in the pick me dance, it's hard not to compare and contrast yourself to the affair partner, who until D-Day was a phantom competitor. In this episode we hear from listeners what details they discovered about the mystery Schmoopies, but most of all how they wised up and stopped competing. Anyone who loves you would never goad you into a humiliating contest.

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    24 mins
  • 123. Infidelity as Ambiguous Grief

    123. Infidelity as Ambiguous Grief
    Apr 7 2026

    When you get chumped, why don't people bring casseroles? In this episode Tracy and Sarah discuss the complicated "ambiguous" grief of infidelity. Therapists call ambiguous grief "complex, often unresolved emotional pain felt when a loved one is physically absent but psychologically present, or physically present but psychologically absent. Being cheated on is its own kind of loss without closure and is uniquely isolating.

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    25 mins
  • 122. Chump Lady Answers Your Voicemails

    122. Chump Lady Answers Your Voicemails
    Mar 31 2026

    In this episode, Tracy responds to your miscellaneous voicemails. A caller wishes to "put the final nail in the coffin" on the argument that infidelity is abuse, because of STI risk and consent. Another listener shares news about a sex addict conference in Denver. And a woman has a hard time leaving her marriage after her fifth D-Day and over thirty years of marriage.

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    13 mins
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