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Perv

The Sexual Deviant in All of Us

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By: Jesse Bering
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"As a sex writer, Jesse Bering is fearless—and peerless." —Dan Savage

"You are a sexual deviant. A pervert, through and through." We may not want to admit it, but as the award-winning columnist and psychologist Jesse Bering reveals in Perv, there is a spectrum of perversion along which we all sit. Whether it's voyeurism, exhibitionism, or your run-of-the-mill foot fetish, we all possess a suite of sexual tastes as unique as our fingerprints—and as secret as the rest of the skeletons we've hidden in our closets.

Combining cutting-edge studies and critiques of landmark research and conclusions drawn by Sigmund Freud, Alfred Kinsey, and the DSM-5, Bering pulls the curtain back on paraphilias, arguing that sexual deviance is commonplace. He explores the countless fetishists of the world, including people who wear a respectable suit during the day and handcuff a willing sexual partner at night. But he also takes us into the lives of "erotic outliers," such as a woman who falls madly in love with the Eiffel Tower; a pair of deeply affectionate identical twins; those with a particular penchant for statues; and others who are enamored of crevices not found on the human body.

Moving from science to politics, psychology, history, and his own reflections on growing up gay in America, Bering confronts hypocrisy, prejudice, and harm as they relate to sexuality on a global scale. Humanizing so-called deviants while at the same time asking serious questions about the differences between thought and action, he presents us with a challenge: to understand that our best hope of solving some of the most troubling problems of our age hinges entirely on the amoral study of sex.

As kinky as it is compassionate, illuminating, and engrossing, Perv is an irresistible and deeply personal book. "I can't promise you an orgasm at the end of our adventure," Bering writes, "but I can promise you a better understanding of why you get the ones you do."

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Scientific Approach • Informative Content • Excellent Narration • Thought-provoking Questions • Accessible Writing

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Would you consider the audio edition of Perv to be better than the print version?

Yes. I would not want to be seen carrying the book around work.

What was the most compelling aspect of this narrative?

The passion the author/narrator has for the subject matter.

Which scene was your favorite?

There were a several, most involving scenarios that scared and/or scarred me... the twin brothers... wow.

What’s the most interesting tidbit you’ve picked up from this book?

Again, there were a several, most involving scenarios that scared and/or scarred me...

Any additional comments?

It really makes you think. If you've listened to Loveline as I have, not much will surprise you and you won't learn a whole lot, but this book will bring it all together for you.

Makes you think

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I've been a longtime fan of the author, Jesse Bering, and his writing. "Perv" is a fun and informative read about the complexities of human sexuality and gives the reader/listener a much broader perspective on how we view even the most controversial fetishes and kinks. I especially enjoyed that this audiobook was narrated by the author himself because it gave the listener a greater experience into the mind and humor of the author. You can really feel his passion for the subject and understand the depth of research he had to endure to write this book. My only real negative is that the book is over too soon. I would have loved to read/hear more!

A fun, informative read about human sexuality

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the history of decidedly deviation and the science is very interesting, though I felt that the author/narrator was trying too hard to inject his own "deviant" sexuality into the book. We get it, you're gay and clever.

interesting info, a little too tongue in cheek

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Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes, this a good book in regards to looking at the science and the mentality of why we like what we like and why we do what we do when it comes to self satisfaction. And definitely clarifies distinctions that are misguided by new media.

What was one of the most memorable moments of Perv?

It explains that the most people are are stated as "Pedophiles" are not actually "Pedophiles" But a different classification. It is a book of understanding, and explanation.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Yes.

Any additional comments?

Very good listen, and very intriguing,

Looking outside your own box

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No judgment, just an exploration of sexual quirks of the Human race. This book covers almost anything you can think of in a respectful way using common sense that rarest of human talent...

Honest up front book on the subject

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